Hotel guest communication, from first question to last review
Hotel guest communication is every message between a hotel and its guests, from the first question about a room to the review after checkout. This guide covers what guests ask at each stage, the channels they prefer, how fast to reply and in which language, with practical tips for small and boutique hotels, and when guest messaging software or a built assistant fits.
What guests ask, stage by stage
The questions are predictable. We grouped the ones small hotels hear most by stage of the stay. The list draws on HiJiffy's ten most common topics, from 1.7 million conversations at more than 2,100 hotels in summer 2023 (HiJiffy), and on the extras boutique hotels typically sell. It is a working list, not a ranked dataset.
| Stage | What guests ask | Who answers |
|---|---|---|
| Before booking | "Do you have availability for these dates, and what's the price?" "Is there a discount if I book direct?" "Is it cheaper than on Booking?" "What is the cancellation policy?" "Do you have family rooms or cots?" "Is the room quiet? Is there air conditioning?" "Do you host retreats or groups?" | The assistant, from your rules and your booking engine link. Group and retreat quotes go to a person. |
| Booking and changes | "Can I change my dates or add a night?" "Can I get an invoice in my company's name?" | The assistant collects the details; staff confirm the change. |
| Before arrival | "How do I get there from the airport or station?" "Do you have an airport transfer?" "Is there parking?" "Are pets allowed?" "What time is check-in? Can I check in early?" "Can I leave my luggage?" "I'm arriving late at night. How do I get in?" | The assistant. Early check-in depends on the day's rooms, so staff confirm it. |
| During the stay | "What's the Wi-Fi password?" "Is breakfast included?" "Do you offer half board?" "Can I book a table?" "What time does the spa open?" "Do you rent bikes or surfboards?" "When are the yoga or surf classes?" "What do you recommend nearby?" "Can I have a late check-out?" "Can you organise a birthday surprise?" | The assistant, within your cut-offs and capacity. Surprises, late check-out and anything unusual go to a person. |
| After the stay | The thank-you, the review request, the invoice, and anything that went wrong. | Complaints go straight to the manager, with the whole conversation. |
Odysi working list, built from HiJiffy's top topics and common hotel services. Add your own: every hotel has three or four questions nobody else gets.
Which channels guests prefer
Guests want the channel they already use. In an eviivo survey of 430 travellers (August and September 2025), 58% preferred to communicate with their accommodation by SMS, WhatsApp or email links; 25% wanted to talk to a person, provided follow-ups were quick; 13% preferred OTA or hotel-chain apps; and 4% a property's own app or QR codes.
In Spain, 92% of social media users aged 12 to 74 use WhatsApp, and 96% of them use it every day (IAB Spain and Elogia, 2025, via Marketing4eCommerce).
And conversations still bring bookings. In 2025 about a third of European hotel overnights were booked by phone (14.1%), email (13.5%) or the website contact form (5.2%), against 13.9% through the hotel's real-time booking engine (HOTREC European Hotel Distribution Study 2026).
In practice: one WhatsApp number on every page, in the confirmation email and in the booking engine; email for documents and groups; the phone for whoever wants a voice. To put an assistant on that WhatsApp number, it has to move to the WhatsApp Business API.
How fast to reply
There is no reliable industry standard, so treat any single number with care:
- An ALICE survey of 400 hotel guests from 2016 (Skift, 17 October 2016), still cited by Guestara in April 2026, found guests feel entitled to complain if a text request gets no reply within 12 minutes, an email within 26 or a social media message within 27.
- Asksuite, a chatbot vendor, says about half of hotel service demand arrives outside business hours (Asksuite, 2.1 billion messages, June 2026).
- For groups the clock is slower but real: 83% of event planners in the UK and Europe expect an answer to a request for proposal within four days or less (Cvent and Censuswide, 2024).
Our rule of thumb: answer what can be answered at once, at any hour, and for the rest say who will reply and when. The assistant we built for Fixlab, a vehicle certification lab, replied first in a median of 16 seconds across 279 conversations between 26 June and 24 September 2026, and 55% of those conversations started outside office hours. Not a hotel; same mechanics.
Languages
Spain alone received 96.8 million international tourists in 2025, led by the UK (19.1 million), France (12.8 million) and Germany (12.0 million) (INE, 2026). In a Booking.com and Statista survey of 198 Spanish accommodation employees, 55% reported a high level of language skills (Hosteltur, 2026).
Write your rules once, in your own language, and let the reply follow the guest's. When a person takes over, they should see the conversation translated, not have to guess. Keep prices and policies identical in every language; only the words change.
Hotel guest communication tips
Nine habits that work with or without software:
- Tip 1Write your house rules down once. Check-in and check-out, early and late, pets, parking, cut-offs, deposits. Staff and any tool answer from the same page.
- Tip 2Put one number everywhere. Website, confirmation email, booking engine and your Google profile.
- Tip 3Answer the answerable at once. For the rest, say who will reply and when.
- Tip 4Send the pre-arrival message nobody sends. Directions, the last stretch of road, parking, late arrival and the transfer offer, before the guest sets off.
- Tip 5Offer extras before the cut-off. "Book before 5 pm the day before" only works if someone asks the guest in time.
- Tip 6Keep the booking direct. Send your own booking engine link, and your own answer to "is it cheaper than on Booking?".
- Tip 7Hand over with the history. Complaints go to the manager with the whole conversation, never "please call reception".
- Tip 8Say it is an AI. Guests take it seriously: in a 2026 study, 76% named privacy as a barrier to AI in hotels (Aluri, Nanu and Szczesny).
- Tip 9Close the loop after the stay. Thank the guest, ask for the review and answer reviews. In Shiji ReviewPro's benchmark for 2025, hotels replied to 68.8% of reviews, after 3.5 days on average (Hospitality Net, 2026).
Guest messaging software or a built assistant
There are four ways to automate guest messaging in a hotel. Most small hotels should start with one of the first three; the fourth is for hotels whose questions are more than FAQs.
| Option | Best for | Channels | Uses live hotel data | Pricing model | What you own |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| WhatsApp Business app and Meta's tools | A small team with few, simple questions. | WhatsApp, with greeting and away messages (app page). Meta Business Agent on WhatsApp, Messenger and Instagram. | No. It answers from what you write into it and your catalogue. | Meta Business Agent is free to start; Meta says paid subscriptions will follow (Meta, 3 June 2026). | Your number and your chats. The logic lives in Meta's tools. |
| SaaS hotel chatbots | Standard FAQs and a booking link, live in days. | Web chat; WhatsApp, Instagram and others depending on the plan. | Through each vendor's integrations; on some plans only. | Monthly, per property, per room or by credits. Visito: Starter $49 a month (web chat, WhatsApp, Instagram, Messenger), Pro $399. HiJiffy: Basic from €99 a month billed yearly (€105 monthly), website only; Premium €319 billed yearly adds WhatsApp and SMS; setup fees apply. Bookboost: per room per month, AI Agent €3.00 plus Inbox €2.80 and data platform €2.20, minimum €399 a month. Duve: Pro from $150 a month adds SMS and WhatsApp. | Your content. The bot and its logic stay with the vendor. |
| PMS built-in messaging | One inbox for OTA, email, SMS and WhatsApp messages next to the reservation. | Cloudbeds: email, SMS, WhatsApp and OTA chats (Booking.com, Expedia, Airbnb, Vrbo, Agoda, Ctrip), with an AI chatbot and auto-translation. Mews: WhatsApp, SMS, OTA messages and email, with Mews Agent (announced 27 May 2026). | Yes: the PMS's own reservations and guest profiles. | Part of the PMS offer; no separate public price on the pages we read. | Your data in the PMS. The messaging belongs to the PMS. |
| A custom assistant (Odysi) | Hotels where the questions are more than FAQs: retreats, transfers, rentals, activities, quotes, a house voice. | WhatsApp on the hotel's own number, through Meta's API. | What the hotel's systems expose, scoped per project. We have not built a PMS integration yet. | Per project: the build, then running costs (the AI model and Meta's per-message charges). No per-room fees. See what decides the cost. | The rules, documents and prompts. |
Vendor prices from each vendor's public pricing page, read 1 October 2026, before tax; they change, so check at the source. Comparison by Odysi.
When software is enough. If your questions are standard and your PMS already has a guest inbox, start there: it is cheaper and live in days. Hotels on Cloudbeds can also add WhatsApp AI agents from its marketplace, which lists Visito and Runnr.ai among others.
When a built assistant fits. When the questions turn on rules that do not live in the PMS: retreat dates and capacity, package contents, rental deposits, transfer prices by flight time. When a conversation should end in a quote that a person approves. When the hotel sells its personality and wants its own voice. Reviews of SaaS hotel chatbots point at this gap: a reviewer of Quinta asks for language that feels "less robotic, especially in more complex or nuanced conversations" (Hotel Tech Report), and Hotel Tech Report's summary for Asksuite lists "limited customization options" among its drawbacks (Hotel Tech Report, both read 1 October 2026).
Messages also cost money now. From 1 October 2026 Meta charges per service message on the API, after 1,000 free a month per number (what WhatsApp charges per message), so an assistant that resolves in three messages costs less than one that takes six.
How to set one up, step by step, is in how to automate WhatsApp Business with AI; when Meta's own agent is enough, in Meta Business Agent or a custom assistant. Our WhatsApp AI agent page explains how we build it, and AI agent for hotels what it does in a hotel.
Sources
- HiJiffy: the most common questions from hotel guests (vendor data)
- eviivo: survey on travellers' communication preferences, 2025
- Marketing4eCommerce: IAB Spain and Elogia social media study 2025, 28 May 2025
- HOTREC: European Hotel Distribution Study 2026 (PDF)
- Guestara: hotel guest message response time benchmarks, 4 April 2026
- Skift: ALICE survey on hotel guest response times, 17 October 2016
- Asksuite: WhatsApp for hotels, 30 June 2026 (vendor data)
- Cvent: planner sourcing report, survey by Censuswide, 2024
- INE: FRONTUR, international tourists in 2025, 3 February 2026
- Hosteltur: talent in Spanish hotels, Booking.com and Statista, 6 April 2026
- Phys.org: Aluri, Nanu and Szczesny on hotel guests and AI, 9 February 2026
- Hospitality Net: Shiji ReviewPro Guest Experience Benchmark, 2026
- WhatsApp Business app
- Meta: Meta Business Agent announcement, 3 June 2026
- Visito: pricing
- HiJiffy: pricing
- Bookboost: pricing
- Duve: pricing
- Cloudbeds: guest engagement software
- Mews: Guest Messaging and Mews Agent, 27 May 2026
- Cloudbeds Marketplace: Visito
- Cloudbeds Marketplace: Runnr.ai
- Hotel Tech Report: Quinta (Quicktext) reviews
- Hotel Tech Report: Asksuite reviews
Read on 1 October 2026. Vendor figures are labelled as vendor data; prices and products change, so check each point at the source before you decide.